I love ESO but I hate the pvp now. There were some good things about it during certain iterations. For me those good things were that skill (and knowledge) mattered and gear was not that important. A highly skilled player can and could beat a player with better gear. Also, the fights lasted for a while so you could try some things and CC was not out of control during those "good" periods. I don't mind losing so much if I feel like I had chances to try some things and just lost because the other guy played better.
Of course, there is the zerg problem, but to some extent it can be avoided.
The bad things for me were the period of DK-Vamp-Bat-Swarm. Hated that time. It went away and things were alright for a good while (except for the lag, etc.).
But now, I've been away for a while, I come back and find that you can be just about insta-gibbed by some nightblade with this specific set of proc gear that's running rampant now. Seriously, before this era, I was never killed in 2-3 seconds. I've also seen the literally unkillable tank. It's stupid and it breaks pvp. I know I could just go get the required gear, for one of the two basic options, but I don't want to. I don't think pvp should have come to this in ESO.
I hope change is on the horizon.
So anyway, is there a relatively balanced pvp game out there in the mmorpg world?