In need of my dream game! Does it even exist?

I have always enjoyed MMO's, and each MMO I have played has been great.  I have played WoW, WAR, DFUW, RIFT, and SWTOR.  ALL were a lot of fun.  I still play SWTOR just to see the story lines as they did that very well!  I had a lot of fun playing these but I am tired of a few things they do which take away from the fun.  Such as...

Tab Targeting/ bread crumbs to your quests...no adventure what so ever you just follow the dot on your map to find that artifact that's no one else has ever found lol/ poorly implemented or unbalanced pvp/ low population, etc

So now, I desire what is called a Sandbox game now.  However, here is a quick list of things that I really want to see in hopefully a game that's out already or is coming out soon. 

Medieval setting - Swords, magic, bows/arrows, orcs, elves, etc.

Non Tab Target - Tired of tab targeting and having my character do the work.  I want to AIM!

PvP - I'm a pvper at heart so w/e game I truly get into needs it and needs it to be working properly. IE: Full Loot/Open world

Large world - World needs to be big enough that I can adventure far from civilization

Crafting - In addition to pvp I also enjoy other aspects of gaming, such as crafting, even building player houses and stuff

Roleplay - I like to emerse myself in my character.  W/E I am doing I like to RP it in game

Large Population - DFUW was a great game but had a stupid low population.  I need a game that is or will thrive

Accountability -  Falls under PvP.  If someone does something to me that I don't like, I like to hold them accountable, some call it griefing, but I fall under a particular gamer that calls it accountability lol.   EX: In DFUW a clan called my clan out claiming we are "not a threat" and would "get the horns" if we continued aggression in "their" territory.  So we spent the next couple weeks raiding them, blowing up parts of their city (which cost quite a bit to repair) and interfering with their sieges (attempts to take other holdings') and in the end that clan realized that they had to either apologize and stand down, or live a hard life.  They apologized. 

Effective economy - selling of crafted gear, scrounged gear, items, resources, etc.

Resource Gathering - Gathering resources in order to make things such as armor, weapons, items, houses, buildings, etc.

Good graphics - Graphics don't mean much to some, but I like eye candy, if I cant look at it I cant play it.  DF = worst graphics I will deal with.  

Now this is just a short list of the main points I would like to see in a game.  I am considering playing Everquest Next / Landmark as that seems like it may have what I'm looking for.  Although the hardcore element such as PvP seems like it will be lacking but idk.   Anyways, are their any games out or coming out that I am unaware of?  If you can help I would greatly appreciate it!