Patch Problem!

Ok so I downloaded the client and everything worked fine. Now when I open the client its dowloading all of the patches. The crazy thing is I need 2904 patches or whatever and thats fine I would just leave it on overnight till it finishes. The problem is the patch keeps messing up and saying "would you like to retry patching" so I click yes and the whole thing shits down. The highest I can get is like 50/2904! So I was wondering if there was any other way? because this seems really stupid ive downloaded tons of other mmo's so there must be another way.