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  • CcrsinCcrsin Member CommonPosts: 1
    I mostly play mmos alone too.. Actually im super social irl, but i like to play alone.
    Still its fun to collect achi, gear etc and my favorite thing is destroying other people in pvp.

  • ScotScot Member LegendaryPosts: 11,767
    DMKano said:
    DMKano said:
    Many play MMOs to just relax and escape all human drama, hence no talking or socializing with other players. 

    If you spend all day dealing with people, its nice to escape people after work 



    Single player games are better suited to these people. Why play an MMO if you want to avoid people? I only ever solo on an mmo if I can't commit for a long period at a time.


    Because sometimes you want to be near people but not talk to anyone. Single player games cant provide that.

    Also MMOs have a particular playstyle that single player games dont have - example solo PvP/PK - cant do that in single player games.
    I accept the idea that MMOs have a unique play style that can appeal to you strange solo players but the idea that you want to be near people but not talk to anyone is beyond my comprehension. I hope you are not like that at parties. :D

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  • ScotScot Member LegendaryPosts: 11,767
    Gruug said:
    t0nyd said:
     IMO, Roleplaying just doesnt work alone. Yes, there is a genre of single player rpg's but I dont actually consider them an rpg. I consider role to be acting and not combat role. When actually roleplaying I am playing a character and not a "insert class name". From decades of pen and paper play to muds to graphical rpgs, the term role playing game has changed drastically. I think we have all be in the, what is an mmo debate. I think that, what is a role playing game, is a much more interesting debate. This is probably why role playing servers exist.

     If these games where role playing games, then what is the need for role playing servers? Is it because people dont role play? If people dont role play, why do we can it an rpg? 

     I play mmorpg to attempt and fail at role play. Usually I end up making character builds and attempting content thats supposedly to difficult to solo. I enjoyed trying to solo in eq1. I enjoy difficult content that usually doesnt exist in a single player game. I enjoy PvP and player interaction. Even when I am attempting to play a grumpy hermit druid, I enjoy player interaction. I like the concept of being useful or needed by others. I enjoy the concept of needing others even though I may and will try to not need them at times.


     

     

    ANY game that you play is technically a "roleplaying" game. If you roleplay a loner fighting the "good fight" it is the same if you are playing as a party doing the same thing. As the loner you may not share that role with others but you certainly share it with yourself. And makes no difference if you are doing it in a formal MMORPG or single player game.

    No, this is the difference between "immersion" and roleplaying, the first you can do alone, the second needs other players. I make immersive decisions when I play a solo RPG, that's not the same as roleplaying, interaction with another role-players is a must.

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  • KyleranKyleran Member LegendaryPosts: 33,984
    edited October 2018
    Sovrath said:
    Forced grouping all available contents is just as lame as making all contents soloable. If you want a world, you need to have both. Your first clue would be the world... you know! 
    I just don't believe in the idea of "forced" anything in games.

    Player buys "a game" then they abide by the rules. It's not forced unless someone is "forcing them to purchase the game and to play it."

    It's like someone going into a French restaurant and saying "they're forcing me to eat french food!"


    Specious out of context argument, likely some sort of Latin named logic fallacy to describe it.

    Assuming one desires or decides to play a particular game the concept of "forced" gameplay is relevant and easily understood.

    "Just don't play" is a valid recommendation,  but irrelevant to the debate whether something is forced on a player within the context of the game's design.


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  • KyleranKyleran Member LegendaryPosts: 33,984
    Scot said:
    DMKano said:
    DMKano said:
    Many play MMOs to just relax and escape all human drama, hence no talking or socializing with other players. 

    If you spend all day dealing with people, its nice to escape people after work 



    Single player games are better suited to these people. Why play an MMO if you want to avoid people? I only ever solo on an mmo if I can't commit for a long period at a time.


    Because sometimes you want to be near people but not talk to anyone. Single player games cant provide that.

    Also MMOs have a particular playstyle that single player games dont have - example solo PvP/PK - cant do that in single player games.
    I accept the idea that MMOs have a unique play style that can appeal to you strange solo players but the idea that you want to be near people but not talk to anyone is beyond my comprehension. I hope you are not like that at parties. :D
    It's not that we don't want to interact with other players, we just are extremely selective on who (and when) we chose to do so.

    I really only want to group with people when there is a real benefit to be had, in terms of significant game efficiency or interacting with others in some meaningful fashion.

    Otherwise I prefer to go it alone.



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  • SovrathSovrath Member LegendaryPosts: 27,070
    Scot said:
    DMKano said:
    DMKano said:
    Many play MMOs to just relax and escape all human drama, hence no talking or socializing with other players. 

    If you spend all day dealing with people, its nice to escape people after work 



    Single player games are better suited to these people. Why play an MMO if you want to avoid people? I only ever solo on an mmo if I can't commit for a long period at a time.


    Because sometimes you want to be near people but not talk to anyone. Single player games cant provide that.

    Also MMOs have a particular playstyle that single player games dont have - example solo PvP/PK - cant do that in single player games.
    I accept the idea that MMOs have a unique play style that can appeal to you strange solo players but the idea that you want to be near people but not talk to anyone is beyond my comprehension. I hope you are not like that at parties. :D
    Do you live in a city?

    I do.

    There is a great energy here, a lot of hustle and bustle. But you don't really go out of your way to speak with everyone.
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  • AmatheAmathe Member LegendaryPosts: 5,746
    When I go to a sporting event I enjoy being around 93,000 other fans who are also enjoying the game. It makes the experience more vibrant and exciting. That doesn't mean I want to interact with them and hang out with them all of the time.
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  • BernordBernord Member CommonPosts: 6
    I don't like partying in nay games, because i'm a completionist, i like to explore every corner if the game offers rewards for it. And through my years of gaming i find that there are people who are too emotionally driven, they rush through everything, collect half the stuff, other half they leave.

    I don't like rushing, missing half the stuff, solo is usually slower and more experience, but partying is better long-term, sure. That's like the same thing when people boost newcomer friends to max level, and they miss 90% of intended content in the game. >_>
  • SovrathSovrath Member LegendaryPosts: 27,070
    Kyleran said:
    Sovrath said:
    Forced grouping all available contents is just as lame as making all contents soloable. If you want a world, you need to have both. Your first clue would be the world... you know! 
    I just don't believe in the idea of "forced" anything in games.

    Player buys "a game" then they abide by the rules. It's not forced unless someone is "forcing them to purchase the game and to play it."

    It's like someone going into a French restaurant and saying "they're forcing me to eat french food!"


    Specious out of context argument, likely some sort of Latin named logic fallacy to describe it.

    Assuming one desires or decides to play a particular game the concept of "forced" gameplay is relevant and easily understood.

    "Just don't play" is a valid recommendation,  but irrelevant to the debate whether something is forced on a player within the context of the game's design.


    erm "no"

    You play football the tackling isn't forced on you.

    you run a triathlon then swimming isn't forced on you.

    you play a game that touts group game play then "grouping" isn't forced on you.





  • BloodaxesBloodaxes Member RarePosts: 4,126
    When I started playing MMOs, no one I knew played them. Fast forward to now, I'm still the odd man out. Everyone else play PUBG, Fortnite, LoL and so on.

    So soloing came kinda by itself. I personally don't like joining random guilds, I need time to get to know someone before deciding on grouping up. Haven't played an mmo since black desert online. The mentality of some people which demands you to be fully focused on the game at all times is not something I seek while playing and relaxing. 

    So, I guess that's my reasoning.
    JeffSpicoli

  • ScorchienScorchien Member LegendaryPosts: 6,873
    Sovrath said:
    Kyleran said:
    Sovrath said:
    Forced grouping all available contents is just as lame as making all contents soloable. If you want a world, you need to have both. Your first clue would be the world... you know! 
    I just don't believe in the idea of "forced" anything in games.

    Player buys "a game" then they abide by the rules. It's not forced unless someone is "forcing them to purchase the game and to play it."

    It's like someone going into a French restaurant and saying "they're forcing me to eat french food!"


    Specious out of context argument, likely some sort of Latin named logic fallacy to describe it.

    Assuming one desires or decides to play a particular game the concept of "forced" gameplay is relevant and easily understood.

    "Just don't play" is a valid recommendation,  but irrelevant to the debate whether something is forced on a player within the context of the game's design.


    erm "no"

    You play football the tackling isn't forced on you.

    you run a triathlon then swimming isn't forced on you.

    you play a game that touts group game play then "grouping" isn't forced on you.


    Well Sorvath if you play football , even at the lowest level , (and im assuming you mean American Tackle football) If you dont Tackle you wont playing long as the rest of the Group will send you home ( unless of course you are Tom Brady for ex.. but even then there are time when you may have to demonstrate some attempt at it ..

        point is .. No Tackle .. you wont be playing long ..

      Same with Triathalon , if swimming is required in the Competion .. YOu must do it ..Or the Group will send you home (disqualified)....

      But the last statement is true ..:)
    JeffSpicoli
  • JeffSpicoliJeffSpicoli Member EpicPosts: 2,849
    edited October 2018
    Sovrath said:
    Kyleran said:
    Sovrath said:
    Forced grouping all available contents is just as lame as making all contents soloable. If you want a world, you need to have both. Your first clue would be the world... you know! 
    I just don't believe in the idea of "forced" anything in games.

    Player buys "a game" then they abide by the rules. It's not forced unless someone is "forcing them to purchase the game and to play it."

    It's like someone going into a French restaurant and saying "they're forcing me to eat french food!"


    Specious out of context argument, likely some sort of Latin named logic fallacy to describe it.

    Assuming one desires or decides to play a particular game the concept of "forced" gameplay is relevant and easily understood.

    "Just don't play" is a valid recommendation,  but irrelevant to the debate whether something is forced on a player within the context of the game's design.


    erm "no"

    You play football the tackling isn't forced on you.

    you run a triathlon then swimming isn't forced on you.

    you play a game that touts group game play then "grouping" isn't forced on you.


    Clearly a Browns or Jets Fan....


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    • Aloha Mr Hand ! 

  • KyleranKyleran Member LegendaryPosts: 33,984
    Sovrath said:
    Kyleran said:
    Sovrath said:
    Forced grouping all available contents is just as lame as making all contents soloable. If you want a world, you need to have both. Your first clue would be the world... you know! 
    I just don't believe in the idea of "forced" anything in games.

    Player buys "a game" then they abide by the rules. It's not forced unless someone is "forcing them to purchase the game and to play it."

    It's like someone going into a French restaurant and saying "they're forcing me to eat french food!"


    Specious out of context argument, likely some sort of Latin named logic fallacy to describe it.

    Assuming one desires or decides to play a particular game the concept of "forced" gameplay is relevant and easily understood.

    "Just don't play" is a valid recommendation,  but irrelevant to the debate whether something is forced on a player within the context of the game's design.


    erm "no"

    You play football the tackling isn't forced on you.

    you run a triathlon then swimming isn't forced on you.

    you play a game that touts group game play then "grouping" isn't forced on you.


    Err...yes. Assuming one chooses to participate in any activity something will likely be forced on you. 

    As noted, can't really play any form of football without having to tackle.   Triathalon's require one to swim a leg however some video games do permit a player to avoid grouping or PVP.

    Though it appears devs favor "forcing" players to pay more money over most any other activity. 


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  • SovrathSovrath Member LegendaryPosts: 27,070
    Kyleran said:
    Sovrath said:
    Kyleran said:
    Sovrath said:
    Forced grouping all available contents is just as lame as making all contents soloable. If you want a world, you need to have both. Your first clue would be the world... you know! 
    I just don't believe in the idea of "forced" anything in games.

    Player buys "a game" then they abide by the rules. It's not forced unless someone is "forcing them to purchase the game and to play it."

    It's like someone going into a French restaurant and saying "they're forcing me to eat french food!"


    Specious out of context argument, likely some sort of Latin named logic fallacy to describe it.

    Assuming one desires or decides to play a particular game the concept of "forced" gameplay is relevant and easily understood.

    "Just don't play" is a valid recommendation,  but irrelevant to the debate whether something is forced on a player within the context of the game's design.


    erm "no"

    You play football the tackling isn't forced on you.

    you run a triathlon then swimming isn't forced on you.

    you play a game that touts group game play then "grouping" isn't forced on you.


    Err...yes. Assuming one chooses to participate in any activity something will likely be forced on you. 

    As noted, can't really play any form of football without having to tackle.   Triathalon's require one to swim a leg however some video games do permit a player to avoid grouping or PVP.

    Though it appears devs favor "forcing" players to pay more money over most any other activity. 


    I don't see how choosing to do something means the activity  you choose is forced.

    Let me guess "new math?"



  • kitaradkitarad Member EpicPosts: 5,127
    Playstyles can become forced because initially a player may have had no intention of engaging in that activity.

    Take for instance a game that says that you can level anywhere in the game and only if you go to certain zones is there PvP. You can theoretically avoid those zones if you want and only play in the non PvP zones. However they placed certain resources that the player needs and the player is unaware until the player has sunk a large part of their time in the game or is part of a guild and the guild now wants the resources in that zone.

    The player though in the beginning when they bought or started playing the game had no intention of engaging in PvP find themselves being killed in these PvP zones they never wanted to play in. They are in effect being forced to experience an aspect of the game they had no intention to experience. Short of leaving the game they have already invested in or leaving their friends they are doing something very much against their will. I have been in this type of situation and considered myself being forced to participate much to my chagrin.

  • ScotScot Member LegendaryPosts: 11,767
    Sovrath said:
    Scot said:
    DMKano said:
    DMKano said:
    Many play MMOs to just relax and escape all human drama, hence no talking or socializing with other players. 

    If you spend all day dealing with people, its nice to escape people after work 



    Single player games are better suited to these people. Why play an MMO if you want to avoid people? I only ever solo on an mmo if I can't commit for a long period at a time.


    Because sometimes you want to be near people but not talk to anyone. Single player games cant provide that.

    Also MMOs have a particular playstyle that single player games dont have - example solo PvP/PK - cant do that in single player games.
    I accept the idea that MMOs have a unique play style that can appeal to you strange solo players but the idea that you want to be near people but not talk to anyone is beyond my comprehension. I hope you are not like that at parties. :D
    Do you live in a city?

    I do.

    There is a great energy here, a lot of hustle and bustle. But you don't really go out of your way to speak with everyone.
    That's a fascinating perspective, one I had never thought of. But you don't just do that in a city do you? You work with colleagues, party with friends, that is replicated in the full MMO experience. Just one you have to decide to take up, but if that's not for you fine.

    But all that still does not mean I get it. :D

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  • GorweGorwe Member EpicPosts: 6,100
    I have a simple explanation. There is an IP a person likes. Lets's say LoTR. And that person likes story based RPGs / cRPGs / aRPGs. What are his options to play right now? That's right. He has no choice, but to play LoTR:O. But he plays it mostly for story / immersion / IP / etc. So, he mostly stays solo / in the background. The same applied to Conan and Warhammer Fantasy. No RPGs except MMORPGs.
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  • AlBQuirkyAlBQuirky Member EpicPosts: 5,420
    Gorwe said:
    I have a simple explanation. There is an IP a person likes. Lets's say LoTR. And that person likes story based RPGs / cRPGs / aRPGs. What are his options to play right now? That's right. He has no choice, but to play LoTR:O. But he plays it mostly for story / immersion / IP / etc. So, he mostly stays solo / in the background. The same applied to Conan and Warhammer Fantasy. No RPGs except MMORPGs.
    That's a fair point, but not totally correct. LotR has a lot of older games (battle for Middle Earth comes to mind) and even some newer titles, like the Shadows of Mordor series. Granted, these games may not be what one is looking for, but the IP is out there.

    Conan has "Exiles" (the survival/builder game?), which I believe (not sure) can be played solo. Not much else, though.

    Warhammer has a game in the "Total War" series, doesn't it? Again, possibly not what one seeks, but the IP is present.

    All in all a very good point. Not all IPs are well represented outside of MMOs. Some MMOs have their own unique IPs, too like EverQuest and Norrath, or Wildstar.
    Gorwe

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  • XevraXevra Member UncommonPosts: 12
    I prefer to solo mmo's so I can game at my own (slower) pace, yet I also enjoy having other players around to roleplay or chat with.  If an mmo had forced grouping as a feature, I simply would not buy it. 



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  • GorweGorwe Member EpicPosts: 6,100
    AlBQuirky said:
    Gorwe said:
    I have a simple explanation. There is an IP a person likes. Lets's say LoTR. And that person likes story based RPGs / cRPGs / aRPGs. What are his options to play right now? That's right. He has no choice, but to play LoTR:O. But he plays it mostly for story / immersion / IP / etc. So, he mostly stays solo / in the background. The same applied to Conan and Warhammer Fantasy. No RPGs except MMORPGs.
    That's a fair point, but not totally correct. LotR has a lot of older games (battle for Middle Earth comes to mind) and even some newer titles, like the Shadows of Mordor series. Granted, these games may not be what one is looking for, but the IP is out there.

    Conan has "Exiles" (the survival/builder game?), which I believe (not sure) can be played solo. Not much else, though.

    Warhammer has a game in the "Total War" series, doesn't it? Again, possibly not what one seeks, but the IP is present.

    All in all a very good point. Not all IPs are well represented outside of MMOs. Some MMOs have their own unique IPs, too like EverQuest and Norrath, or Wildstar.
    Exactly the point. Tbh, I completely forgot about the other side, the side of Everquests and the like. But that's just it, from both sides. As for the RPG titles and other genres, what do you think is the overlap between, say, RPG and RTS or RPG and Survival games?
  • GorweGorwe Member EpicPosts: 6,100
    Xevra said:
    I prefer to solo mmo's so I can game at my own (slower) pace, yet I also enjoy having other players around to roleplay or chat with.  If an mmo had forced grouping as a feature, I simply would not buy it. 



    Fully agreed. I just don't trust others enough to handle them my own sense of fun / freedom / safety. I also highly dislike forced grouping, especially when done in a random PUG manner(say, Blind Pick in LoL = massive puke).
    Kyleran
  • GutlardGutlard Member RarePosts: 841
    I start out with the intention to play duos or trios with friends in MMORPG's, but schedules conflict, and I can't usually invest as much time in gaming as they can (single guys), so they usually have to leave me behind. At this point, they have a few 'play with Gut' throwaway toons set aside...ha

    Gut Out!
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  • ScotScot Member LegendaryPosts: 11,767
    Gutlard said:
    I start out with the intention to play duos or trios with friends in MMORPG's, but schedules conflict, and I can't usually invest as much time in gaming as they can (single guys), so they usually have to leave me behind. At this point, they have a few 'play with Gut' throwaway toons set aside...ha

    Gut Out!
    At least you get to spend some time grouping with them, its not a competition to always be available. :)

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  • wielkipwielkip Member CommonPosts: 13
    If you play in the great game, hard and with a full lot pvp you are unable to play solo. It is too hard do something overpowered without mates.
  • KyleranKyleran Member LegendaryPosts: 33,984
    wielkip said:
    If you play in the great game, hard and with a full lot pvp you are unable to play solo. It is too hard do something overpowered without mates.
    You might be surprised how many people solo PVP in EVE.
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