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why you may ask?
first and foremost you are and never will be #1 in your girfriends life. the child is was and always will be #1. as a result your releationship will never be as strong as it could and in most cases should be. eventually you will end up being responsible and taking care of a child that isn't and shouldn't be your responsibility. more often then not the child grows to resent you or you end up resenting the child for various reasons. just having a girlfriend consumes alot of time. when there is a kid involved aswell it consumes your entire life from the time you get up til the time you go to sleep and then some. it's not all bad but it's extreamly stressful and you'll end up wondering if it's worth it. all of which can easily be avoided in the first place. but only if.... you never date a woman with a child that isn't yours.