Only package worth buying is the cheap one for the actual expansion and the aasimar race, the other two package are bloated with worthless junk.
As for is the game good.....it was the best DnD type "online" game when I was playing it but things kind of went downhill after Motd and all the grind they added.
Some grind is good and part of the endgame was TRing and grind past lives but they took that much much further and have a bad habit of adding in crafting systems which they never complete to then add in a new crafting system ad nauseam.
The game was hella better than Neverwinter Online, not to be confused with neverwinter nights, as it felt much more dnd with all the gear and build choices whereas in neverwinter there's not really any build/gear choices with a very limited amount of skills you can use at once.
Neverwinter is a very generic action game where you avoid the red circle with a very limited dnd skin tacked on.
Wish they would make a DDO2 as I would probably play that in a heartbeat.