Ok, in the interest of maybe talking about ourselves in a positive way for once (because like it or not we ARE the communities we ourselves slag off) give your three highest rated sevrer community from the games ytou have played, for whatever reason.
Everquest 2, Guk server.
City of Heroes, Virtue server
Vanguard, Telon server.
Each of these has a great server culture and is led in the main by the community builders. There are dicks on each, sure, there always will be, but the overall culture on each of these is healthy and positive, a fact that the people playing on them should be proud of. CoH's Virtue probably wins through as having the best server culture and overall community I have ever played on.
I know this thread will probably be on the thirdpage within a couple of hours, seeing as it isnt a flame or has anything in it to make the majority angry enough to respond to, but while it lasts give a shout out to those communities that have impressed you.